17 Self-Centered Things Everyone Does Without Realizing It

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1. Listening to someone talk about a personal problem only to immediately make it about you and a problem you are going through when they stop talking. You might think you’re empathizing, but it usually just comes off as “My turn to talk about problems.”

2. Lying to someone about why you are late or have to cancel for something, because you don’t want them to get mad at you, even though it totally screws it up for the rest of us who actually do have a reason to be late.

3. Answer question after question about yourself without stopping to ask the other person a question. Even if it feels unnatural to shift the conversation around and focus it on them, it’s still an important thing to do.

4. Complaining about your job in front of someone who is having a really hard time finding one.

5. Allowing yourself…

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印象分。

很多时候,我对一个人的印象会随着更深的认识而改变。

就像这一次的小组作业。

我真心觉得你是一位不错的同学,责任感很重,功课又好。

结果,做着、做着,觉得你只不过是车大炮,什么都指示别人做。

打从心里鄙视你。

44 Incredible Things That Make Life Even Better

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1. Road trips.

2. Going out for milkshakes.

3. Bringing home a new pet.

4. When Netflix has a new season of your favorite TV show available.

5. Waterparks.

6. When your cat curls up on your chest and starts purring.

7. Warm, freshly baked chocolate chip cookies.

8. Midnight bonfires.

9. Afternoon naps.

10. Lighting your favorite candle and reading a good book cuddled up with a blanket.

11. Water balloon fights.

12. Exploring a new city for the first time.

13. Drive-in movies.

14. Curly fries.

15. Playing in the snow with your dog.

16. Root beer floats.

17. The silence after a snowstorm.

18. Passport stamps.

19. Ice cream, any kind, doesn’t matter.

20. Going to the midnight premiere of a movie you’re really excited about.

21. Pajamas fresh out of the dryer, especially in the winter.

22. Looking at the stars on a clear night.

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10 Everyday Things That Can Save A Relationship

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1. Don’t listen to what they say any less than you did your college lectures. Pay attention to what they tell you, no matter how insignificant or mundane. Don’t turn the conversation back around at yourself by using an example from your own life to compare to theirs. Stop comparing all together. Don’t just talk to them, have an actual conversation– an art that is waning. Don’t pepper your responses with mindless head nods and a high pitched “yeah” or “nice.” Engage.

2. Withhold the blame-placing, even if you know you’re right. There is an incredible emotional buffer in starting sentences with “I believe” rather than the accusatory you-are-wrong-and-I-am-right. Nobody deserves to feel like they’re the lesser in a relationship, especially not for something they think or believe.

3. Be selfless. Not just by monetary means or anything like that, but in the way you remain faithful if you say you…

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Stop.

Sometimes I feel like there is something wrong with me.

It’s like… I like a guy too easily. Or rather, I like the impression I have of a guy too easily.

And I am very clear that its not love… But yet I can’t outgrow it.

Stop. Please stop.

Cause (you) and I know… I am not good enough.

I never am.