17 Self-Centered Things Everyone Does Without Realizing It

Thought Catalog

1. Listening to someone talk about a personal problem only to immediately make it about you and a problem you are going through when they stop talking. You might think you’re empathizing, but it usually just comes off as “My turn to talk about problems.”

2. Lying to someone about why you are late or have to cancel for something, because you don’t want them to get mad at you, even though it totally screws it up for the rest of us who actually do have a reason to be late.

3. Answer question after question about yourself without stopping to ask the other person a question. Even if it feels unnatural to shift the conversation around and focus it on them, it’s still an important thing to do.

4. Complaining about your job in front of someone who is having a really hard time finding one.

5. Allowing yourself…

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印象分。

很多时候,我对一个人的印象会随着更深的认识而改变。

就像这一次的小组作业。

我真心觉得你是一位不错的同学,责任感很重,功课又好。

结果,做着、做着,觉得你只不过是车大炮,什么都指示别人做。

打从心里鄙视你。